I hopefully no one is waiting for Badarn Jai ep. 8 caps. I will have everything up by tonight 1am.
I couldn’t watch today’s episode because I had to go to court. No, NO, I didn’t get into a bar brawl with a midget who touched my bum and had police fines to deal with. I had to settle my father’s landlord/tenant dispute. One of my father’s tenant wasn’t paying her rent and was damaging the house.
We won but I’m still fueled over what she said. Golly heck, what a grapefruit lying piece of cow manure!!!! And don’t get me started on the judge, God!!! The judge reprimanded me for sassing her. I didn’t think I sassed her –roll eyes and shrugs- When we walked into the court room, the judge already had a perception of us-slumlord and pitiful welfare tenant.
We won but in a way I felt we lost. I realize today that street smarts tramples school smarts any day. I felt so inadequate as a person in court. I couldn’t believe some of the bullshit coming out her mouth. Her kids trashed our house and we proof. We took pictures. When there was damages, we always repair them and bitch had to lie and say my dad never made any repairs. None? Please mofo, how can you lie so easily? My father is not a spazzing slumlord, he’s a decent human being who cares about all his tenants. When she was late on rent, we allowed her time. Who freaking allows their tenant to be late for 6 months? Without penalties we allowed her to pay partial of her rent. My father can be a pushover sometimes. We were always willing to work with her.
I’m so angry at myself for not being able to catch up with her manipulative schemes and lies. These people are good and I’m starting to feel like I need to amp up my deceptive game to compete with them.
I’m borderline overly passive aggressive and I’m beginning to hate myself for that. I’m so annoyed with my father for not fighting back. My father even yelled at me for being angry. This is what he said to me while we drove home,
“Lyn, you must understand there is no need for anger. Look at me, I feel fine about it. Actually , I feel nothing. There is no point to arguing with them, you won’t accomplish anything. It will just give you more headaches. You have to learn to keep it cool and be nonchalant about these matters. Let them say what they want, we know the truth. No need to fight back. ”
My father is constantly teaching me to be Zen about everything and sometimes I just don’t understand his logic. I’m angry and I want to feel angry. He telling me to deny my feelings and reprimanding me when I do express them.
Wanna see how they left the place: (pictures can be deceiving because in actuality it looks 10 times worst)
—I no longer have respect for the American Judicial system and the American Welfare system. They cater to this woman for years and they never checked up on her. She abused us, her landlords and abused the welfare system that cared for her.
I am happy that I no longer have to deal with her and her drug-addict children. No more drama and that is just beautiful.
ow it’s not a house, it’s a dustbin! poor lyn, i’m so sorry for you and your family. good luck na
Some westerners think they can trample over Asians because they are passive and won’t stand up to them.
The justice system will look after them, they think, because the welfare system always has.
As a landlord, I would avoid beneficiaries, if possible. It’s not their money or home so they can do what they like.
As an Asian I think I would stick to owning commercial space like an office.
If your father can’t bring himself to be nasty when it’s needed, then he should not be in the business. Nor is it right to let his young daughter get mixed up in it. Neither of you need the grief.
you’re lucky you actually got to go to court with them…for my dad’s issue the tenant just up and left one day and never came back…they left all their stuff there which was just pieces of trash that i dont even know why they kept…they even claimed that my dad didn’t know how to speak english or they couldn’t communicate with eachother…i was just like “please stupid people…even though my daddy is asian and wasn’t born in america he can speak english better than ur dumb ass plus my dad can kick ur ass any day…” but yea i was really piss off at those people…we spent a lot of money fixing up that place and every thing too after that incident….i never saw those people again and wish to never see them again…i’m just saying that i know exactly how you feel…every one in my family were angry and upset too. i wanted to find those people and sue them for the money that we spent on fixing up the whole house and cleaning up the shit they created but my dad was like it wasn’t worth the time or effort so we just let the incident go….til this day i’m still angry at those people…they’re stupid…them jerks…
I’m both happy and sad! Same thing happening to my family but the person just won’t give up hate that! Well good luck! I’ll wait!! I love coming here!!!
i totally understand how you feel, i have been there and done that too, but in my case the tenant were relatives (not close but still related) and that was 10x worse because afterward there were so much rumors etc… my dad preaches me about the same thing too….
aaw tht sucks!! i didn’t know ppl could be so evil! wow, anyways GOODLUCK!
OMGosh, your story sound just like a friend of mine at work. The same thing happened to her father who doesn’t communicate at all in English and she is a really sweet and quiet person who had to deal with this headache. The tenant did not trash the place as bad as yours did but was really delayed on her rent too and her father let the lady get away with it for months. They are still going to court over it and the tenant threatens to sue her family when they got in an argument. Sue for what, I don’t know, but the lady’s one comment that stuck on me was that she complained my friend’s father gave her an attitude over the back rent. Wth. And they couldn’t kick the tenant out til a certain waiting period was over after the lady had been “legally” notified.
That is just terrible, sorry to hear that you have to dealt with peoples like that. And yep, the system is not helping these peoples, but instead made them worse by becoming dependent on the systems and taken advantages of the systems.
Lets worry about more important things like -BADARN JAI lol
just kidding!!
I wouldn’t stress out about it. I know in the heat of the moment one can be angry but I do agree with your Dad, not that I don’t understand where you are coming from. I, too, have a passive parent- I think it’s an old school Asian thing- ” don’t rock the boat ” mentality. It doesn’t pay to be stress over crack addicts cuz you know, they don’t give a s*** ass so I say, ” Good ridden”
Dang girl!! Sometime you literally crack me up w/ certain remarks that you make. Yeah, I don’t know how you put up w/ those ppl for so long. Freakin crack heads needed to be out a LONG TIME ago so that you could have time to fix all their Sh** and prepare for a NEW tenant. But now it’s all over! Tomorrow is a new day. Will await your caps! Enjoy your day!
i hate people like that, but my mom always chided me about keeping the house clean…because truly, how well you keep your house reflects on your personality and you can totally see that with the lady and her house. D: it stinks that you had to go to court though. but at least now you know what you lack.
now you could work on your street smarts so if this ever happens again, you could keep your cool and make the other person sound like trash at the same time. 
i was so happy when i saw Badarn Jai ep.8… but it’s ok if you delayed it… you have more important stuff to do… hopefully everything is alright… i really can’t wait to see episode 8…
As soon as i saw the title “badarn Jai Caps and Summary will” and the rest was cut off, i was soo excited until i saw “be delayed”.. I was so sad, but it’s oka, you have more important things to do, which i respect that! you are always on top of updating us, one time wont hurt us, beside this time it was a reasonable explaination to why you can’t do it just yet!
I feel you with all the anger and so forth. I can’t believe you guys had to go to court for this, my gosh, and you guys are so freaken kind to them. i would of just kicked them out a long time ago. But I do agree with your dad also but he was a bit too kind. you can’t be kind for so long. After a few time, shoot, no need to speak nicely anymore.
Hi Lyn, I have to confess that I was hoping to see your summary since this morning. But hey, you are busy and I was fine. I was able to wait Ep. 8 on youtube w/o Eng Subs. I have no idea what they are talking about but well I can guest. It was an interesting episode w/ alot of interactions between the main protagonists. I will wait patiently for your summary. Unfortunately, I can not read to tonite but I will do it tomorrow morning. I can understand your frustations toward the tenants. My parents used to have those house for rent for years. I was the one who had to deal with all problems. As for the North American Juridicial system (I live in Canada), I have gave it up for years. I have a bachelor degree in Social Work but never worked in the field. I saw the “truth side” of it on the last semestre. Anyevent, I am in marketing filed. I love what I do because I do not have the pressure to fight for something does not exist. In summary, I love your work and keep it up because I do not understand Thai
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