Aum Atichart admits to separation

So it’s a break and not a break up. He didn’t say why they are on a break, he did admit they have been separated for almost a month. On Saturday June 20, Pinky made it known to everyone at her birthday party she is single and ready to mingle. Today, Siamdara caught up with Aum Atichart at the Dutchie Boy and Girl Contest 2009 at Central World Plaza to get the scoop on his break with Pinky.

Let the interrogation begin….

They say you and Pinky have broken up, is it true?

Aum:’I think it is best to call it a time to consider, to do other things to make our relationship more clearer.”–translation, a break to reconsider their relationship.

How long have you been separated?

Aum:“Almost a month.”

Why did you separate?

Aum:”It’s an issue between two people, I have tried to reach an understanding, it’s an issue about understanding. I have tried my best. I think there is a time to think, a time for a break, to step back from a person and move forward.”

They say you are the one who broke it off with Pinky.

Aum: “Aye, hold that thought, I will summarize this again, I will do it cautiously, right now we are independent, she can do whatever she wants, I’m also independent and can do what I want.”

So we can call it a break and not a break up?

Aum:”Lets not use that term yet, lets have time to think, let us move back, have independence to do things on our own. I think that would be better.:”

So you two are sulking at one another?

Aum:”It is an issue between two people to have a moment of being angry and to sulk at one another.”

Are are the person who is sulking?

Aum:”Why would I sulk at her? Isn’t it usually the woman who does the sulking, why would a man sulk? I have tired bringing us together to the same point, it’s not sulking. If we are not in the same point, then it would be a different story.”

Can we call it a dead end in your relationship with Pinky?

Aum:”Dead-end. Can we call it a diverging point? (laughs). If it is a dead end, where can I travel to? If I have a clearer answer, I will tell you. Right now, I have time to think on my own because Pinky has been working a lot and I also have a lot of work on my plate. It has given me time to be on my own.”

Have you talk to Pink yet?

Aum:“We still talk, she is not mad, we are not fighting, she doesn’t hate, there is nothing, we are still in good terms.”

There has been a rumor you are seeing another person?

Aum:”It has nothing to do with another person, it is the problem between two people, there is no one else involve. I’ve tried to reach an understanding several times. If there is resistance, it is just tiring to continue.”–So Aum is trying to resolve the issue, but Pinky is not having it.

A reporter then ask about Pinky’s mom not liking him because he is not being accommodating as before. Like trying to please her and picking her up routinely.

Aum:”There is a time where we have to reach an understanding and a time to meet each other, there is a lot of things in a relationship. It’s not one or another, there is love, there is understanding, it is reciprocal to each other.”

Is there a chance it will be as before?

Aum:”We are still friends, it’s just time for us to step back. If I have a clearer answer, I will tell you.”

Has this love expired?

Aum:“I don’t sell telephones (laughs). I think she has done good and done her best, as for myself, I have tried my best, my utmost best. I also believe she has done her best . As for our relationship, how it will turn out, at least we are not angry with one another. We have not hurt each other, no one is hurt, it is a good thing.”

Any chance of opening your heart to another woman?

Aum:“It’s up to the future…blah…blah”

People have been saying, you have another person and once you break up with Pinky, you will reveal her.

Aum said he didn’t do anything, everyone is his friend and they have supported him.

What did you give Pinky for her birthday?

Aum:”I have her present saved up, I knew it was her birthday, so I sent her a happy birthday text message.”

It just seems like you and Pinky are in relationship for promotion purposes and now it has reached it saturation point.

Aum:”That is what other people think, I don’t blame them because we’re in the illusion industry. I’ve done everything from my heart and I have tried to make other people understand, but couldn’t. We are not commercializing on our relationship. It’s not like that. I don’t think Pinky is doing that either.”

We talked to Pinky the other day, she said everything is as before, will you change your stance?

Aum:”I’ve said that this is a matter between two people, it’s about understanding. What I say right now or my explanation, other people might not understand because we have not cleared it up yet. It’s really about the understanding of two people.”

How about your fanclub who is worried about you?

Aum thanked both his fanclub and Pinky’s fanclub for being concern and stated that he is trying his best to make it look good. Sometimes a relationship can get tiring and has reached it’s ending, that’s how it works.

About the present he has saved up for Pinky for her b-day?

Aum:”I will give it to her myself, I have to wait awhile, I have not been able to see her yet.”

Is this the last present?

Aum:”Can I answer that later?”

Okay, who is dumping who? Aum is hinting a lot of stuff, it does sound like a break up interview where both parties involve are trying to make it seem like everything is rosy.  I don’t believe in breaks, I believe in break ups. If it’s too difficult than move on. He said he was tired, a relationship shouldn’t be tiring.